Watch This Space

Hello everyone!  As you may have noticed, the 28 Days To Confidence has taken a break.  Perhaps I should have called it "28 Steps" instead. 

I had unforeseen events that have prevented me from continuing.  I had to help out my family and I'm in the process of sorting out a few areas in my personal life.  I'm perfectly fine and so is my family.  I am very busy though, I hope that you can appreciate and understand. 

I will be returning as soon as I can. 

Watch this space :)

Love and miss you all, 

Melanie xxoxx

28 Days To Confidence - Day 8

28 Days To Confidence - Day 8

This could either be breaking a bad one or creating a good one.  This can't be done in one day, but you can start now.  Imagine if you did it for the rest of this challenge and it became habit. ;)

Remember to try and be mindful of the other days challenges, like posture and showing your beautiful smile.  Work at them until they become habit, confidence can be a habit if you work at it.

How did I go?

The bad habit I'm trying to break is not drinking enough water.  I struggle with this one all the time.  I was really good at it for a while and then I got slack, didn't work at it and it all went down hill from there.  

I wake up and think of a nice warm coffee to lure me out of my covers, especially during the colder mornings.  But, it dehydrates and that really isn't what I need after not having water for about eight hours.  Water is one of the best things you can put in your mouth in the morning (not the funnest *wink*).  So, I've decided to make it a double challenge and make myself drink about 600 mls of water straight up (I keep it next to the bed so I can still stay in the covers hee hee).  

I'm a little bit of a princess when it comes to water, I didn't drink water for the longest time because I didn't like the taste.  For those of you that say it doesn't taste like anything, my inner princess can taste it.  So, I invested in a filtered water bottle to give me incentive to drink more.  I find with a water bottle I can take it with me everywhere, rather than just drinking from glasses.  I find that glasses of water will just sit there and I'll forget about them.  With a bottle I can close the cap and it's easy to grab.

I make sure that I have a bottle with every meal.  So, if I'm drinking one as soon as I wake up, that's 600mls, breakfast 1.2L, lunch 1.8L, dinner 2.4L.  It adds up pretty quickly then and if you have it there with every meal, it's easy to become habit.

I'll be completely honest, I really didn't do the best at this today.  It's something that I have to work on. It started off well and I forgot as the day went by.  I'm putting these steps in place from now on though and I know that I can turn it around.  I hope these tips help if you are wanting to increase your water intake.

What habit are you changing?

28 Days To Confidence - Day 7

28 Days To Confidence - Day 7

Day 7: Go It Alone

I don't know why it is perceived that there is something wrong with you if you are alone.  That you're a loser, a loner or just don't fit in. (Now the Raggy Dolls theme song is playing in my head, anyone remember that? Link here).  So often we find comfort in the company of other people or distractions that we forget how to be alone and be happy about it.

Today's challenge is to do something alone that you would normally do with someone else.  It could be anything at all, going to the movies, a cafe, shopping, a party etc.  But, I don't want you to rely on your phone or other distractions for comfort.  I think it's important to just be...alone. :)

Can you go it alone?

How did I go?

I used to hate and would avoid going to restaurants and cafes, even food courts alone.  I thought that everyone would perceive me as that loser/loner that didn't fit it, so I just avoided the situation all together.

How did it change? I did.  I decided that I was going to face this ridiculous fear of mine and just do it.  Not only that, I decided that I was going to stay off my phone, off social media and not have my head buried in any form of reading material.  I threw myself in and decided to enjoy the experience, the surroundings, the people, all of it. 

I know that to some of you, this isn't a big issue for you and that's why I want you to choose your own confidence building scenario.

The Paleo Place - Chicken Carbonara

I had some time in between appointments, so I decided to stop for lunch at The Paleo Place (not sponsored).  I had the Chicken Carbonara (chicken and bacon carbonara served with zucchini pasta) and it was pretty delicious.  I think it's the best meal I've tried from them yet.  It was the first time I've tried zucchini pasta (I know, I should be ashamed of myself considering how long I've been Paleo) and I was surprised how tasty it was.  I really have to make this at home!

I was really comfortable and I think that if I had distractions, I wouldn't have enjoyed the meal as much as I did.  You know what? Now I really don't care if people think that I'm a loser, a loner and I actually don't mind not fitting it.

What are you afraid to do alone?

28 Days To Confidence - Day 6

28 Days To Confidence - Day 6

Day 6: Give Yourself A Boost

Today's exercise is really simple.  Remember the last time you received a great compliment? How did it make you feel?  When you've received a compliment re read or relive that experience and it will give you a little boost. 

It also doesn't hurt to give someone a heartfelt compliment either, try it. :)

Some of the many amazing comments from one of my Facebook posts (40kg weightloss)

How did I go?

I feel extremely blessed that I have so much support from all of you, seriously feeling the love!  Thank you so much!  I could not have come this far without you, it's true! xxoxx

I find it really overwhelming (in a good way) when I read through all of your comments, it's amazing!  It still blows my mind when people say that I inspire them, that makes me so happy.  The whole point of this blog was to help others who have issues with weightloss, so I'm going to keep blogging as long as I'm helping people.

Reading these comments helps keep me going and helps me refocus on my weightloss goals.

Love you! xxoxx

28 Days To Confidence - Day 5

28 Days To Confidence - Day 5

Day 5: Take Ten

You have 1440 minutes in your day, all I'm asking for today is 10.  

Yesterday I briefly discussed meditation and how it helped me face my fear (blog post here).  I wanted to elaborate on it in today's post for those of you who may find it useful.

How does meditation equal confidence?  Not only did it help face my fear, I also use it when I feel pressured, stressed or unproductive.  To me, it's like a reset button.  When things seem overwhelming, I take ten minutes of meditation and I'm refreshed and ready to go.  It's not only for times of stress or pressure, I try to do it every day.  In fact, right after a meditation is when I had the idea for this blog post series. 

Calm app

How did I go? 

I've been using an app called Calm for the last week.  There are several meditation apps you can download, I've tried a few, but I prefer Calm (not sponsored).  The reason I prefer it is because you can choose your own background sounds or "scenes".  

The beach <3

It has everything from rain to falling snowflakes.  My favourite is Sunset Beach because the sound of the beach relaxes me, I grew up near the beach and used to fall asleep to the sound of waves crashing on the sand.  I chose the meditate program of 7 days (the 7 days is free), each day teaches you meditation techniques.  You can also choose a guided meditation or just sounds to a timer.

Not only do I have jaw problems, I have issues with my neck/shoulder and back muscles.  Everyday I have to stretch these out as well.  I noticed that as the day went on, my shoulders were really tight and giving me grief.  I had to pull myself away from what I was doing and relax.  

To stretch out my shoulders, I place a rolled up towel or foam roller between them and lie down.  This forces them back and stretches out the muscles (recommended by my physio, for my particular needs).  During this time I like to use this app, I'm just lying there anyway.  

I've already finished the 7 day program, so today I chose a guided meditation for ten minutes.  It really helped with my stretches because it made me relax into it more.  It also cleared my mind that was a bit of a mess due to pain and thinking of all the things I had to get done.  I was able to come back and really focus on the day ahead. 

It's ten minutes, do it and thank me later! ;)

What helps you stay focused and relaxed?

28 Days To Confidence - Day 4

28 Days To Confidence - Day 4

Day 4: Facing your fears

Today is another one for mental strength, facing your fears.  Not all at once, unless you want to. ;)  Just focus on one fear today and face it.  It doesn't have to be big, it can be something really small, just to start off with.  It can be anything you like.  

  Fears don't magically disappear and you don't just get over them, you have to work on them.  If you never face your fears, you will always have them.  So, be brave! :)

I'm warning you now, this is a long blog post! If you don't like long posts and aren't interested in the back story, just go to the "How did I go?" section.

Getting ready for the MRI

My Story

I remember my first MRI (read about MRI's here), it's when I was first diagnosed with Chiari 1 Malformation and after that MRI, my whole life changed.  I was told to have an MRI due to daily debilitating migraines and a whole host of nasty symptoms.  I had no idea what was happening to me and when I was diagnosed with Chiari, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

It was really hard to take on because there isn't a cure.  The only way to solve this issue was with some pretty serious surgeries and with not a great success rate, as far as I knew.  It's also a rare condition and not much is known about it.

MRI Machine - Image source: Wikipedia

The first MRI itself was a horrible experience for me.  I don't like being in tight enclosed spaces as it is, and you can't see out of the machine.  However, when I had this MRI, I was a lot bigger, almost 150 kgs! (I'm about 103kgs now). Lucky, it was only a head scan, because my arms almost didn't fit through the machine!  As it was, my arms were pressed tight against the machine the whole time, it was not comfortable and you have to stay completely still for the hour.  Don't even get me started on the noises the machine makes during the scan!

It was soon time for my second MRI, this time it was a full body scan, not just the head.  My heart sunk, a FULL BODY! That meant that I had to be fully inside that whole tube from head to toe!  But, I had now lost about 20kgs, so I was hoping like mad that this would be much more comfortable than the last.  Thankfully, I fit in the machine! It was a pretty big win for me, however, it was still a bit of a squeeze and not much room between my arms and the machine.  It was less horrifying, however, I was still pretty anxious during the whole scan.

I then started having a heap of really horrible symptoms, as well as my current ones.  These new symptoms were quite terrifying as they were all stroke like symptoms.  My resting pulse was way up in the 100's (it's around the 70's now).  I had chest pain.  I was short of breath and wasn't able to walk a few steps without being almost out of breath.  I felt weak, exhausted and my days were spent in bed because I couldn't do much else.  

Muscle weakness got so bad, that a pen felt heavy to hold in my hand.  I felt like I was going to black out whenever I stood up and almost passed out when I would have a shower.  My hands turned blue at one stage and the doctors were worried about the low oxygen levels in my blood.  I got numbness in my left arm, leg and half my tongue.  It got so bad that sometimes I could barely walk or speak.  I was also diagnosed with Wolff Parkinson White (WPW read more about it here).  I was in and out of hospital with these horrifying symptoms but I was always told that it was not WPW causing this, that it wasn't heart related.

Normal Heart (L) and Wolff Parkinson White Heart (R) - Image shource; Wikipedia

I kept pushing for answers because I knew that this had to be something to do with my heart.  It wasn't all in my head and I needed to get to the bottom of it, no matter how many Cardiologist said it wasn't my heart or WPW.  No matter how many times I was sent home from emergency, still suffering, with them telling me it was a virus.  I finally found a great private Cardiologist who was willing to listen, she didn't know what was happening to me but she wanted to do as many tests to help me get there.  It was now time for my third MRI.

The third MRI was a Cardiac MRI.  By this stage, I had now lost about 30kgs and fitting in the machine was no longer an issue.  However, I was still anxious.  This time I had to hold my breath on and off constantly for the hour.  It is pretty challenging normally and especially when you're short of breath, but I was determined because I needed those results.  It was really uncomfortable the whole time.  The test results came back clear.

My Cardiologist suggest I then have an Electrophysiology Study (EPS read about it here), to see what was happening with my heart and if required, have an ablation to resolve the extra pathway due to WPW.  I did end up having the ablation (while fully awake mind you, painful as!).  I now haven't had any of these horrifying symptoms since.  I've also resolved my migraines through physio.  It turns out that I also had jaw joint issues - TMJ (read about it here).  I still have to see my physio every month or so and I still get headaches and a few symptoms, but so far not migraines.  I'm able to manage them through daily stretches.

So, it was now time for my fourth MRI, a spinal MRI. Due to the Chiari, there is limited space at the base of my head and specialists are concerned about there not being enough space for the cerebrospinal fluid (more about it here) to pass through.  If there is a problem with the flow of fluid, it can lead to a lot of complications, so this MRI was to ensure this wasn't happening.  I've just had the MRI, so I'm still awaiting these results.  However, I feel fantastic, I'm fairly positive that these results will come back clear.

How did I go? 

What was this blog post about again? Oh, that's right, confidence. hahaha ;) 

I found out that I was going to have this MRI after I had already started this confidence challenge on my blog.  I thought what a great opportunity to really test myself and make me face one of my fears (head on hee hee), for myself and for all of you that read my blog.  Do you see what I put myself through for you guys? ;)

Usually I spend the whole week, morning, day etc before the MRI, dreading it.  But, I thought I'd try something completely different and look forward to it.  Why would I look forward to this horrible experience?  It's all about perception.  I decided that I was going to find something positive about it, no matter how hard I had to struggle.  

Recently, I have been practicing some meditation techniques (I never thought I would do meditation, like EVER... who am I?), just to relax each day and get my head clear.  I'll go more into this later in this challenge, but during the meditation, I have been focusing on my breath, just my breath and nothing else.  I decided that I was going to apply what I have learnt over the last week and test myself.  I looked forward to the MRI now, because now it was a challenge, an opportunity.  I thought about how I was going to tackle it and it was an opportunity to relax as well.

I gave myself plenty of time to get there and arrived early.  This meant that I was more relaxed and wasn't flustered before.  I filled out the forms and waited for the nurse.  I was now back in the same room where I had my first MRI.  The memories came flooding back, I remembered how nervous I was, how different I was.  Back then I had him with me, this time I was alone.  This time I was perfectly fine with being alone and I didn't need anyone to hold my hand, to reassure me.  

I remembered last time when they sent me to the change room and I didn't fit into the largest clothes they had.  I was so embarrassed and humiliated, I had to change back into my clothes and ask for larger ones.  I ended up having a tie up gown, because that is all that would fit.  Remembering all this it made me proud.  Proud of how far I've come, proud of my struggle, proud of me.

I was so relaxed going into the MRI, laughing/joking with the staff, this time not from nerves.  The MRI started and I relaxed my body and started just concentrating on my breath.  There were times when thoughts tried to creep in, but I told myself that all I needed to do was breathe.  I didn't need to worry about anything, I didn't need to do anything, I just needed to relax and breathe.  

It worked! I was surprised when the MRI was over because this time the hour didn't drag.  I was so relaxed the whole time, that when I came out it felt like I'd had an hour long, refreshing nap!  I was so happy with myself.  I'm now going to apply this with for other stressful situations.

So, congratulations if you made it to the end of the post! Sorry it was a big one, but I haven't fully explained what was happening with me. 

What are your fears?  How are you going to face them?  Let me know! ;)

28 Days To Confidence - Day 3

28 Day To Confidence - Day 3

Day 3: Dealing with failure - Learn from it

The last two days have focused on physical changes, today is all about building mental strength.  How we feel and think about ourselves makes a huge impact in all areas of our lives.  It's easy to be positive when things are going well, but the real challenge is to see positives when things aren't.  

Today I would like you to think of a time where you weren't so confident, where things didn't go as you would have hoped, a failure.  I want you to take yourself back there and relive the experience, not to make you think negatively, but rather to find positives.  There is no way that we can predict every situation, outcome and how we will react.  This is not an exercise to beat yourself up for not being perfect.  You can't learn from perfection, there is no room to grow, develop, or change.  Change is exciting, take it with you next time.  

Think of what you learnt about yourself from this situation, what you learnt about life and what you would do differently.  You can't change the past, but you can change you.  If you learn from your mistakes, you can prepare for similar situations in the future and therefore, be more confident.  If you can turn a failure into a win, you never fail. :)

The only mistake you can make is not learning from them

How did I go?

I recently had a situation where I really didn't do my best at all, in fact, it was probably the worst I've ever performed in this situation.  I thought I was prepared, but if I'm completely honest with myself, I should have prepared more.  It started out well, but because I wasn't prepared enough, my nerves got the better of me and took over.  I froze up, my memory blanked and basically rendered me useless.  

I'm actually remembering it again as I'm typing this and smiling.  I can smile about it now, but at the time it was horrifying!  After the event I was in a state of shock, I felt sick, embarrassed, I was so upset and angry at myself.  I definitely let it get the better of me and I went into a self loathing stage.  At the time I tried to see the positives but I was too overcome with emotion and it clouded any positive thoughts.

How can I smile about it now?  Because this was the perfect example of what NOT to do in this situation.  When it's such a blunder, you know exactly what you need to do next time.  I now see with clarity that this opportunity really wasn't right for me and it wasn't what I really wanted.  I'll be placing myself in a similar situation soon and I'll view my previous experience as practice.

I'm already preparing for the next opportunity and I'll be that much stronger and confident for it.

How are you going with this challenge? Remember to carry on the previous lessons with you. :)

28 Days To Confidence - Day 2

28 Days To Confidence Challenge : Day 2

So, how did you go with the posture? Did it help? It may be a little early to see the effects of it as yet.  I think it would be beneficial to carry this one through the whole 28 days, as well as todays: Day 2: Smile.  Yes, that's it.  It may sound simple and easy enough and it is, but I want you to try to do it all day.  I don't mean that you have to walk through life grinning like an idiot, but to practice your resting smile face, just raising the corners of your mouth slightly where you feel comfortable.  This means no resting bitch face. ;)  

It's easy to go on auto pilot and forget, just like posture.  Smiling makes you feel good and when you feel good, you are more confident.   This one will feel odd at first, but just keep trying and it will soon become more natural. 

Day 2: Smile

How did I go? 

The morning was challenging for me as I was very tired from a poor nights sleep and I had to be up early and on the train.  I found I really had to concentrate on it because it's so easy when you're tired and not feeling your best, to naturally frown.  The train is a challenging environment to practice this one, I noticed that everyone was frowning and looking down.  It's so easy to get caught up with the group, but I was determined to really concentrate on it.   However, I noticed that when I kept smiling, I started to feel better.  Positive thoughts started coming through and I started to think of the day and get excited.  

Whenever I noticed myself not smiling, I made a conscious effort to fix it.  I have been working on this one for a few months now and it gets easier, but I still have to focus on this until it becomes habit.  I have been asked a lot recently "why are you smiling?" or "why are you so happy?", in return I ask "why aren't you smiling?"

The afternoon was really easy to practice this one because I was out with my nephew.  It is near impossible for me not to smile when he is around, I'm constantly smiling and doing crazy things to make him smile and laugh.  I just can't help it.  I know I'm bias, but he is freaking adorable too, so when you are with him, people will smile at you.  I was also carrying a huge helium balloon around for him, his face lit up when he saw it, how could I not smile?

The balloon...

This challenge was in the back of my mind the whole day, so I was also observing others during the day.  I wasn't surprised that people weren't smiling on the train, but it did surprise me how many people didn't smile back at me when I was walking with my nephew and a huge balloon.  Sure, there were quite a few who did, I also got some laughs and some odd looks sometimes (that just made me smile more), but there were quite a lot that didn't smile back at all.  

I found this surprising because to me, balloons are a positive symbol, they are around during times of celebrations and evoke positive associations for me.   If I saw someone walking around with a huge balloon, I'd smile at them. Wouldn't you?  Also, children always make me smile because there is something so innocent about them.  They remind me of a time when I didn't have to adult and I didn't have problems, they remind me to stop and remember the basics, what life is really about.  I had a double smile combo!  It still wasn't powerful enough for some, but we are all different and we all have our problems. 

Let me know how you go and how you are finding the challenge.  I'd love to hear from you! :)

28 Days To Confidence - Day 1

28 Days To Confidence Challenge - Day 1

Today is day one of the 28 Days To Confidence challenge.  Can I just start by saying that I am by no means an expert on confidence.  However, I have learnt a few things that have helped build my confidence over the last year.  This challenge is for everyone, me included.  I'll have a tip/goal for each day that I'd like for you to do with me.  They will start out small and for most, you can choose how big or little you would like to go.  For blogging purposes, I will be a day ahead, meaning that I have already started Day 1.  This is only so that I can blog about my experiences and how I achieved it in the day, in order to assist you with examples and tips. 

Day 1: Posture

Day 1: Posture

It may seem really basic but it's actually has a lot of benefits, building confidence being only one.  Think about it... Slouch in your chair, do you feel ready to take on a challenge? Now, sit up straight with a good posture, how do you feel? 

The challenge for today is to maintain good posture throughout the day.  Make a conscious effort to notice and stop yourself when you start to slouch or hunch over. Sit, stand and walk tall, my friends. :)

How did I go?

This one is a big one for me.  I have struggled with this all my life.  I've noticed that my posture has improved over the last year and I believe it's due to how I feel about myself on the inside.  A few other things have contributed to my tight neck, shoulder and back muscles, but I know that posture is a big contributing factor.  

I try to do this one all the time, but I made a concerted effort to keep this going all day.  I did really well today.  It was in the back of my mind all day, so I was constantly aware when I was starting to slouch and pulled myself out of it.  One tip that has really helped me is to place a cushion/pillow at the base of my back while I'm sitting in an office chair, it prevents me from slouching. 

I started with posture because I think it's important to start from day one and carry through the 28 days, and hopefully forever. 

Please let me know in the comments how you found today's challenge! :)

A New Challenge

A few things I've been up to :)

Hello! It's been quite some time since my last post.  A LOT has happened since April and I have never felt better!  I no longer have a heart condition (read more about it here) and my migraines have vanished!  I honestly can't remember when I had my last migraine, it's been over a month.  This is pretty exciting for someone who suffered from them daily for the last two years and they were really debilitating.  

I still have some pain and headaches, but it's manageable and no where near as severe.  The heart condition got pretty bad at one point and I was in and out of hospital.  I had no energy, chest pain, numbness, my hands started turning blue and the doctors were worried about the oxygen levels in my blood.  I'm extremely lucky to be alive and I'm thankful for it every day. 

So, I have been enjoying my life again without these issues.  I've caught up with friends and been out a lot more than usual.  This is one of several reasons that I haven't been blogging.  I have also been really busy, helping out family, house/pet sitting and moving house to name a few.  I'm in my new place now, but I still don't have a few of my things here yet, like my scales, so unfortunately I can't tell you how much I weigh, how much I've lost or do a "weigh in Wednesday" for you.  

I know that I have lost more weight due to my clothes.  But, to be honest with you I'm okay with not knowing how much I weigh.  It's really just a number.  I do continue to weigh myself to track my progress, but I'm not as concerned with the figures as I once was.  Scales don't measure how healthy you are and that is what is really important.

 I don't want to disappear on you again and wait until my scales have returned.  I've decided to do something a little different for the next month.  I was discussing confidence with a friend recently and she said that she didn't really have any.  I don't think that I'm the most confident person in the world either, but it's definitely increased since I first started this blog.  It didn't just happen, it was a conscious effort to push myself in small ways.  

I think it's something that everyone can improve on, so I've decided to create a "28 days to confidence" challenge. I think it's important while losing weight to focus on becoming more confident now, instead of waiting to reach your goal weight.  You can look different on the outside but still feel the same on the inside, so why not start now?  I'd love for you all to join this challenge with me.  I'll be putting up tips every day for the next 28 days, with examples of what I've done to achieve it that day.  

Let me know your thoughts, I'd love to hear from you!

My 40 KG Weight Loss and Reward!

The beginning and now, the changes are huge!

 It still blows my mind!  I can't believe the transformation, not only in my face, my body, my clothes, how I am physically, but also emotionally and mentally.  EVERYTHING has changed for the better.  I didn't expect this much to change, I didn't expect me to change so much internally. 

I almost don't recognise the face in the first photo or the person.  I used to be so down on myself, I had no self respect and I hated myself.  Now, I'm like my own personal cheerleader and I can honestly say, without cringing, that I love and respect myself.  I'm still a work in progress and I have my bad days, but there are definitely a lot less bad days.

Getting there! :)

If the weight loss progress ticker above is anything to go by, I am just over half way.  Now, I'm not sure what my "ultimate" weight is, I'll let you know when I get there.  But, if it's going to continue to be as awesome as it was losing the last 40 kgs, I say BRING IT ON!  

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all of your love and support during this.  I couldn't have done it without you! xxoxx

My precious!

You know that I have to have a weight loss reward and it's probably more than likely going to be makeup related! Surprise, it is! ;)

Now, I may be a little embarrassed of the size of my makeup "collection" and I definitely don't need any more!  So, I decided that an artist is only as good as her tools.  If you're going to get some high quality makeup brushes, you can't go past Hakuhodo brushes.  What makes them so great? They are created from real animal hair (cruelty free).  The brush hairs aren't cut, which makes them extremely soft and they blend like a dream.

I have a Hakuhodo face brush that I bought at IMATS a few years ago (I believe it's the B103BkSL Powder Blush Brush Pointed, but they didn't use to print the numbers on them) and it is my favourite brush, ever.  I purchased the B J142 for blending eyeshadow in the crease and the J005 for applying gel eyeliners and smudging out liner/shadow for smokey eyeshadow looks. 

I can't wait to try them out on my more defined face. :)

As of today, I am now only 6.8 kgs away from a 50 kg loss! :O  I can't believe it! I want to do something really special for this, as this was my first big goal!  I need suggestions please!!! 

Weigh In Wednesday! - Week 61 Weightloss Journey

42 KG! Gone! 0.7 kg loss this week

Weightloss Week: 61

Weight lost this week: 0.7 kg (1.54 pounds)

Starting Weight: 148.8 kg (328 pounds)

Current weight: 106.8 kg (235 pounds)

Total weightloss: 42 kg (92.6 pounds)

Thoughts on this week

If you have read my blog for a while, you might know that I have jaw problems. I recently found out that I have Temporomandibular joint dysfunction (more info here), I have read that many Chiari 1 Malformation sufferers, like myself, have TMD.  There doesn't seem to be any proven treatment for TMD, however, I am hoping to work through this with my amazing Physio.  

My Physio has recently found a new trouble spot lower in my jaw and did some needling.  Since then, I have been in constant pain and had constant headaches and migraines.  It's amazing how exhausted being in constant pain makes you, it completely drains you.  Due to this, I haven't been blogging.  I hope you can appreciate, that it's almost impossible to concentrate in front of a computer with a constant throbbing head. 

After all of this, I do have some positive news. :)  I went to see my cardiologist last week and it seems after the ablation (read about it here), it has healed itself! This means that I don't have to have the procedure again and it may have cured my heart condition!  I have a heart monitor for the next few weeks to see how I go, but it's looking pretty good. 

Goals for next week

It's going to be Easter, I don't have a problem avoiding chocolate anymore.  But, I will be staying with family, so I may not blog during the next week.

I hope you all have a happy, safe and healthy Easter! 

Guilt is a useless emotion in weight loss, just enjoy and get straight back on it! 

Love, Mel xxoxx

Weigh In Wednesday! - Week 60 Weightloss Journey

Week: 60

Weight lost in 5 weeks: 2.5 kg (5.5 pounds)

Starting Weight: 148.8 kg (328 pounds)

Current weight: 107.5 kg (237 pounds)

Total weightloss: 41.3 kg (91 pounds)

Where have I been? Again!

I disappeared again! I feel like I'm letting down a friend when I don't blog for a while!  I had a family emergency and I had to help out.  Family comes first, so I hope you understand!

I wasn't really able to follow the Paleo diet during this time.  I skipped meals and didn't really eat very healthy at all.  It made me realise how much I miss eating healthy and the impact it has on my body.  As of last week I'm back to healthy eating again and I love it!  

I almost can't believe I'm at a 40kg weightloss!  Losing 50 kgs and being under 100 kgs was my first big milestone and I'm so close!  It seemed so far away when I first started and almost impossible and I'm so thrilled to have gotten this far. 

Thank you for your support and encouragement! Thank you for your patience and putting up with me and my disappearing acts!

How are you doing? What is your first big goal?

Paleo Burger and Cookies! - Weight Loss Journey Week 56 - Day 3

Week: 56
Day 3 - Friday
20/02/2015

Have a little too much time for breakfast? Try this! ;)

Breakfast: Green Smoothie Bowl
(Spinach, Coconut Water, Banana & Pear
Topped with Almonds, Chia Seeds, Goji Berries and Coconut)

I woke feeling nauseous this morning so I didn't really feel like a big breakfast.  Keeping it light I decided to make a quick green smoothie and serve it in a bowl for something different.  It's prettier than your average smoothie. :) 

No burgers on Paleo? No way! 

Lunch: Sweet Potato Beef Burger

(Recipe HERE)

I thought I'd try something a little different for lunch and create a Paleo beef burger!  I have had sweet potato hash browns for breakfast (post here), but I thought I'd see if I could make them into a burger.  Success!  Okay, so you can't eat it with your hands as it's a little too soft and messy for that, but it's delicious! 

There is no flour in this or additives so it is pretty healthy too.  Because it's sweet potato it is lovely and filling.  I have tried it before with a chicken patty (recipe soon) and that was lovely too.

Burgers and Cookies in the one day!

Afternoon Snack: Banana Date & Walnut Microwave Cookies

(Recipe HERE)

I decided to reward myself for exercising today and create a quick treat.  I love creating new recipes and thinking of how to use ingredients in different ways.  I figure if I'm going to have something like this, it's best to have it about 30 minutes after exercise as a post workout treat.  I enjoyed these as they were a nice soft consistency, not dry like other microwave cookies I've made. 

You can't see my dinner for the trees!

Dinner: Savoury Mince layered with Pumpkin Mash
(Recipe HERE)

I had leftover savoury mince that I had left over from lunch, so I decided to use it for tonight's dinner.  It's not a very pretty or exciting dinner, but it was still tasty. 

Glasses of water: 8

Polar FT4 Heart Rate Monitor

Exercise: Dancing

Due to the bad weather here I was pretty limited exercise wise.  I decided to just dance around at home.  This was the LAST thing I felt like doing today.  I had just recovered from a migraine and was wiped out, but I felt like crap anyway so #*$% it!  Why not?

  I can at least try it and see how I go and this was the result.  I didn't feel great after, but I felt better because I had done it for myself and surely it would be helping me.  It's really hard to exercise when you're not well the majority of the time, but I'm going to do my best.  I may not be able to climb mountains but at least I can climb off the couch! ;)

I hope you're all staying safe, love Mel xxoxx